Alone but a strong fighter

Off course Aap ek strong person ho har kisi se jisko aap dekhte hain ya sunte hain aur kisi aur ki na to salaah ki zaroorat honi chahiye...kyunki dusre salaah tabhi dete hai  jab vo ya to apne bure time se  nikal chuke hote hain ya unki life me vesa Situation undone abtak face nahi kiya.... It's you jo ki Akele hi apni es tough time se fight kar rahe ho jo ki ye btata hai k You are a strong fighter.
Feel like a fighter and let's be with yourself to make yourself more stronger.

Following blindly is good or bad?

Insaan k liye follow karna easy hota hai kyunki usne jyada sochna nahi padta hai. Aur esi nature ki wajeh se aaj ka insan bas puppet ban kar reh gya. Har insaan kisi na kisi insan ko ideal maankar follow karna chaahta hai. Ye parampara ki tareh ho gya hai insaano ki duniya me. Apni samajh se kuch alag karne k badle andhon ki tareh follow karte jate hain koi varification bhi nahi karte khud se. Kehte hain bade buzurgon ki salaah leni chahiye, ye nahi kaha gya ki aankhen band karke follow karni chahiye. Insaano me kahi na kahi vo gehrayi wali soch vo parakh khatm ho gyi hai shayad tabhi ye motivation speech dene wale aur motivational books likhne walon ka vyapar itna fal-fool raha hai. Kabhi kabhi koi thodi alag view se kuch keh deta hai to kabhi to ese logo ko zaroorat se jyada bhaav mil jata hai to kabhi use khalnayak karaar kar diya jata hai. Kabhi to ek insaan aata hai aur khud ko alag saabit kar deta hai bas aur log shuru kar dete hain follow karna aur es tareh hazaron ki sankhya me log putle ban jate hain .  Es follow wali parpara ko chalne wale har tareh ke log hain jo apne apne putlon ko zindgi k tareh tareh ki seekh dete hain. 

Kabhi kabhi esa hota ki ek insaan kuch alag karne jata hai to use dusre jan samuhon ke virodh ka samana karna padta hai. Lekin agar wahi ek insan apni baat pe adig raha aur peeche nahi hata to yahi jan samuh uske anuyayi ho jate hain. Ye kahi kahi hota hai aaj bhi lekin ab jyadatar jo karan hai bahot sare jan samoohon k anuyayi banne ka, vo yahi hai ki log ese aasan samajhte hain. Ek nayi soch lane aur naya raasta dhundhne se log ye behtar samjhte hai ki koi readymade ek vichar de de ya ek raasta hi bta de. Logo k paas aajkal sochne ka waqt nahi hai jisse ki unki thought process affected huyi hain . Aajkal logo ka waqt jyada devices k liye use hota hai aur sabke pass apne apne reasons hote hain. Ek insaan jabtk mobile ya laptop ya tv k pass hota hai tabtk thought process life ke liye create nahi ho pate hain. Insan ka sabse bada shatru es mamle me mobile hai. Aajkal mobile me jyada se jyada followers bnane ki bhi daur lagi rehti hai. Jiske jitne followers vo itna khud ko bada samjhta hai fir chaahe vo Twitter ho , instagram ho ya tiktok etc. Digital Followers k paas kabhi kabhi apne reasons hote hain to kabhi bina reason hi bas follow kar lete hain. 

Ese kabtk log bina samjhe boojhe follow karte rahenge aur kabtk apni zindgi ko dusron k hawale karte rahenge. Uparwale ne aankhen kyun di hai agar duniya dusron ki aankhon se hi dekhna hai to. 

My Life Dairy

Date - 11april 20

Kal evening se aaj k din tak mind kaafi unstable raha. Khud ko ese react karte dekha jese ki main esi  puppet ban gyi hun jisme gambheeta aur samajh hai hi nahi aur ko sirf negatively react karna jaanta hai har ek baat par. Jab insaan bas vo karta jata hai jo uske dil me aata hai to insan kahi ka nahi rehta. Dil ki sunte sunte duniya enjoy karne lagi aur enjoy karte karte kab annoy hone lgi pta hi nahi chala. 

Kal raat jab sone ki koshish kar rhi thi to dil me esa aaya ki shayad inlaws meri burayi kar rhe hain aur dil ne esko satya ghoshit kiya es basis par ki esse pehle jab mummy wala sapna dekhti thi ki mere liye vo kharab bol rhi hai to vo sach hua tha. Aur main bhi es dil ki baaton me aakar attentive ho gyi ki ese kese ye log meri burayi bhi karenge aur mera use bhi karenge. Baat galat nahi thi ye meri lekin jis base pe maine esa react kiya vo galat tha. Aur es chakkar me main bhool hi gyi ki maine life k liye kya usool bnaye hain- kisi k liye bura na bolna na sochna, har jagah sirf pyar delana hai nafrat nahi. Fir behan ka msg aaya tha to uspe bhi react kiya badly ki tumlog nahi chahiye ab meri life me aur eska reason bhi dil ne bataya ki aajtak main unke liye sochti rahi fikra karti rahi ab nahi- ye baat alag hai ki family k kisi bhi members k liye sochkar ya unko apna kuch waqt dekar kisi pe ehsan nahi kar rhi ,kisi ne bulaya nahi mekko ki aao Mahaan bano. Lekin ye jo common people hote hain unki life me koi rules nahi koi usool nahi hota aur mera behaviour bhi unhi ki tareh ho gya tha kal se. Itni baar react kar rahi thi chilla kar reply de rahi thi aur esa dikha rahi thi ki mere sath galat kar rhe hain ye log aur eski wajeh se hyper ho rahi thi main. Dopahar ko husband ne masti me bottle se halke se mara to main out of control hi ho gyi aur dil me esa aaya ki ya to khud ko kuch kar dun ya undono me se kisi ko tabhi ye log pareshan karna chodenge ---- and this was the worst thing. Thodi der baad jab ehsaas hua ki ye kyu aaya dil me kyunki ye har tareh se sirf wrong tha. 

How believe system exists in our life

My diary view....

How a believe system is created in our mind and our life. The're the ways....

 1. Some believes put in our mind from childhood.

2. Some believes come from society and customs .

3. Some believes come from personal experience . It's created in your mind automatically as you personaly experience it and get proof of it.

4. Some believes are automatic as it comes after repitition. 

Believe systems are those system who control our life till the end of life. Most of people are unaware of this system. It plays very strong role in our life. It is so powerful that it can break your life and make your life .  If your believe system is strong you can get anything in your life without any doubts .

This is the reason why it is said that be positive. Being a positive thinker we have good believe systems . In the beginning, all believe system was a thought. And all these kind of thoughts ,which become our believes, come from external environment either directly or indirectly. 

To understand how a believe system works,we will take some examples .

[ ] For example if we observe a child, he always believes what his parents say. If his mother will say the world is not good and she will say it again and again . That child will believe it . If his father will say life is not good ,he will start to believe in it . When child does anything wrong parents shout and show anger on him and when it happens again and again ,it becomes his believe that when someone doesn't go according to you then we shout shout and should be angry ...

[ ] In above examples we can see that believe systems for that child created by both ways directly and indirectly and both come from external environment .

[ ] Now when that child is in his young age ,he starts to think and use his mind. He may change some of his believe systems by self verification.

[ ] In this stage he may continue his old believes or may modify it. This stage is for replacement , modification of old believe systems and formations of new one. And again he will create his believe systems from external environment by self verifications .

[ ] And the next stage is old stage when you may or may noy realize that what you had actually. Some people realize it but now they can't change it and most of the reasons are their ego. It doesn't mean they can't do it . 

[ ] So this is a common and simple story brhind believe system. As you can see from above examples believe system is created by external environment and it can do anything in your life. From outside it comes inside our mind as a thought and if it stays continue, it becomes our believe.

 Even you can't count at present that how many believe systems are present in your mind. In other words, you have no idea how many believe systems are captured you. Only by observations you can find it out . There are some common believes in this world like ...

1. Black cat shouldn't cross your way, this believe is not in all country. 

2. If you will show your anger ,you can make people agree easily .

3. The best example of believe system is found in religious world. People can do anything for their believes in spritual world. In india there are many places where people are ready to do abnormal things only because of their believes like walk on fire , get wound on tongue , kill animals etc.

4. People pray to God because they believe he will listen .

 If your believe system is not good or negative ....don't worry you can change your believe system........

                           Sk

world as a shop

This world is like a shop......good and bad both types of thing are present.....and its depend on u.......wot u buy after paying ur precious thing TIME....

Atitute

Its true that atitute attracts other..bt ppl cn live wid atitute bt cnt come on this earth wid atitute n cnt go wid it.. Also a needy or a beggr cnt show atitute..

Follow d world bt why??

Wen we r in childhood..we follow our parnt..in school,follow teacher n genious students..aftr that top rankr n sumtimes this society..aftr that make a ideal n try 2 follow him.. Durng these activities,where we r?? Follow n follow,wot abt our identity??
1 more thng,wen we really follow others and wen we realise that we r followng others?? D diffrnce r our mind n our undrstang 2 take decisn..